Why Make Yourself The Victim When You Are Actually The Main Character In Your Life?

When you realize that you are the main character in your life, you will see that you can always find something positive in everything that happens to you, because you are the one who controls your own reality.

We understand that, sometimes you think the world is against you. You feel that bad luck is taking over you and that no one cares. However, you forget that you are the main character in your life.

Behaving like a victim can be a very comforting thing to do. Putting yourself in the middle of the problem is therefore something you have probably learned how to do well. With this attitude, however, you will never be able to move on.

You stay there, in a comfort zone that does nothing but strengthen your belief that you can do nothing to change things. Remember: All you have to do is take a step forward and start walking. Despite all the fear and slowness that holds you back…

You are the main character in your life and you decide how to live it

Since you are the main character in your own life, you choose how to live it. So when you make yourself a victim, remember that it was your choice.

You have chosen the option that many choose. Maybe it’s because you get attention when you make that choice. People close to you will feel sorry for your situation.

What they do not know is that you have chosen to feel sorry for yourself and complain and not move on from where you are. Although life is sometimes difficult, you can really get the most out of any situation – but only if you want to.

In all negative situations there is always an opportunity. Sometimes it can be an opportunity you have to seize. Other times it can be an opportunity to teach you to deal with your emotions. Remember that you are the main character in your life, you design the life you live, so whether you want to or not, it is you who creates it.

If you feel sorry for yourself after being fired, it’s up to you. Every time you submit your resume, your lack of energy and pessimism will be obstacles in the way of a new job opportunity.

However, if you deal with it in a positive way, for example by considering it as coming out of a job you did not like anyway, or as an opportunity to look for new companies that will allow you to grow, then your attitude will be very different than it was before.

Your attitude will attract you to the things you need

Your attitude means everything. If you change your attitude, you may realize things you never knew before. Things that were covered by a thick layer of fog.

If you have a positive attitude, you will attract positive things. Even if they spend some time showing up. Even if you have lost hope, be positive. Think of a situation where you are in a relationship and your partner is unfaithful to you. As a result, you end up putting everyone in the same category as the person, and thinking that in the end they will all hurt you.

Complaining, generalizing and claiming that all these people are the same will make you repeat the same mistakes and prevent new people with whom you can actually start a loving relationship from entering your life.

On the other hand, if you stay positive, if you learn from what happened and refrain from repeating past mistakes, you will attract someone you truly deserve when you least expect it. Because you are the main character in your life. Everything you think and believe will manifest in the life you experience.

You are not a victim of the circumstances, you are the main character in your life

Always remember that you are not a victim of the circumstances. Not everything that happens to you is negative. What’s even better, if you talk to and get to know other people, you will realize that many others are worse off than you.

Bad luck does not create chaos for you. Everything bad in the world does not happen to you. There are good and bad things in life. Do you know what the positives of most negative situations are? The lessons they teach us.

When everything goes well, we press the “autopilot” button. When everything goes wrong, however, we look for what we have overlooked before. We focus on the present, and we can take some time to reflect.

So do not feel exposed. Instead, find the good in everything that happens to you. It is, after all, true: You are the main character in your life, and your life will unfold the way you want to see it.

If you decide to play the victim, you will have thousands of opportunities to continue to feel like a victim. However, if you choose to be who you are, the main character in your life, you will have so many opportunities to grow, learn and move forward despite all your problems!