Meeting The Perfect Person At The Right Moment Is Magical

Sociality and the continuing, deep desire to meet the perfect person to enjoy a connection. Is something that has always lived in the heart of human existence.

Aristotle already spoke of it in his day. Later, the Austrian doctors were Alfred Adler and Rudolf Dreikurs. The first doctors to deal with the problem of sociality in a strong theoretical and empirical way.

In addition, we cannot omit Abraham Maslow’s classic pyramid of human need.

Undoubtedly, seeking approval, care, friendship, love and belonging,  when it is said, if there is one thing we all know, it is that it is not easy to meet people who fit with both our being, our values, our identity, our hobbies and our passion.

It is also important to remember that for a great friendship or a healthy relationship, it is not necessary to hit 100% on all aspects of our personality. There is something more intangible, something that we can not explain or define that cultivates these real magical bonds that last over time.

From time to time, and almost without knowing how, we are simply “connected” with someone. We have all experienced this at some point. To meet the perfect person at the right moment, just when you need them most .

If this has ever happened to you. Then we invite you to go deeper into the topic to understand what lies behind this incredible phenomenon.

Meeting the perfect person at the right moment: the power of connection

Louise Hawkley is a researcher at the University of Chicago, USA. He specializes in researching psycho-social phenomena. According to her, most of these special ties, stable friendships and strong relationships that we do not know how to define. Characterized by  sharing aspects that build what we often call “connection”:

• Intimate connection is the first of these and refers to the most private aspect of the self.
  • When we meet someone, we feel almost instantly whether that person harmonizes or connects with our being. If we feel understood, and if it is chemistry.
  • It is like a natural instinct that is strongly related to our intuition.
• The second aspect is defined as  relational connection  and refers to the  frequency with which we come into contact with this person.
  • Often, when we meet someone, we do not feel a special need for them or interest in them.
  • Still, when there is a true connection, the daily participation of “good morning, how are you?”, “I have been thinking about…”, or “let’s do something together” will strengthen the relationship.

• Finally, there is the collective connection that refers to how comfortably the person integrates with your closest personal circle (family, friends…).

The power of intuition: the sixth sense that guides us to the right people

Finding the perfect person is not easy. Most of us have suffered from disappointment. After all, we have all put our hopes and dreams in people who at some point have failed us or just were not what we thought. In the same way, we ourselves will all have disappointed someone. We may even have decided to abstain from someone at some point for some reason.

All of these dynamics are normal in our life cycle. They are part of this timeline, where we gain experience and wisdom. The magical substrate that makes our sixth sense ever sharper and more alert. But something we must never forget or underestimate is the power of our intuition. After all, it is our intuition that almost always reads exactly who is in our interest to be associated with and who is not.

How does our intuition work when we meet someone?

Our intuition is not a supernatural, magical or extraordinary force.

• In reality, it is our brain’s ability to give us quick choices or information about what it finds in our subconscious.
• This exceptional, intimate storage space in reality hides the  essence of our entire existence, past experiences, our feelings, our identity, hidden desires, needs, values, memories ..
• What intuition does is travel quickly into the storage space, where it dives into the spectacular garden of our subconscious to consult with it. It searches quickly to find answers or an explanation.

When we meet someone, our subconscious makes a quick assessment based on who we are and what defines us. Then it quickly sends us an emotion – perhaps just a tickling emotion, which appears in our mind and constitutes our intuition or a sign.

This is what tells us whether we should trust someone or not. Whether it’s worth seeing them again or giving them our phone number… etc. Finally, it’s always a good idea to listen to your inner voice and appreciate it.

Magical connections with others happen every day. Remember, however: you must be receptive, go with the flow and pay attention to what is around you to find them. Then you may also meet the perfect person for you.