Give The Children Love To Starve Their Fears

Giving children love is the engine that drives the bond between parents and their children. Every child who comes into the world needs more than just food, shelter and security. Love is so necessary that if it is absent or deficient in a child’s life.  This leads to serious problems in their development.

You may have heard of attachment disorder before. This is a delicate and complex matter that deserves further exploration in order to be able to fully understand it.

On our site today we would like to invite you to explore this interesting topic with us. Give the kids love every day. With unconditional love, we will give them the strength and guidance they need. To grow into mature, responsible adults who are the architects behind their own happiness.

The delicate, yet powerful, bond between parents and their children

The bonds between a mother and her child begin in the womb with the umbilical cord that nourishes the development of the baby. The warm refuge in the womb also serves to transmit emotions between the two to further strengthen this bond.

The ribbon that begins at birth

In recent years, it has been discovered how important it is for newborn babies to spend as much time close to the mother’s skin as possible.

Births today follow so many different protocols that the baby will often be held by many different hands before it is finally given to the mother after she wakes up from the anesthesia.

Many studies have been conducted on this topic, and they have the following conclusions:

• The newborn must be in contact with the mother’s skin in order for the emotional bond to be created.
• Babies take in the world through their senses, and the temperature of the mother’s breast gives the baby a warm feeling of security that immediately calms the baby.
• The mother’s brain will immediately release oxytocin, which is a hormone directly linked to love and the need for care and affection between mother and child.
• When a baby breastfeeds from its mother for the first time, the oxytocin released by this will cause the mother’s body to produce more milk.

It is important for a baby to be in contact with the mother’s skin. It’s a great way to build a relationship.

Attachment Disorder

We all know that factors such as abandonment, lack of true love, abuse or an unstable upbringing full of ups and downs without a sense of security can cause a child to have serious emotional problems.

An attachment disorder occurs as a result of traumatic ruptures in the emotional bond between children and parents during the earliest stages of their development. All this has serious consequences for the child’s development. And it often leads to conditions such as hyperactivity, post-traumatic stress disorder, feelings of anger…

Now, something that can be harder to believe is that children can sometimes suffer from a lack of care. Consider the following situations as an example:

• Some children are in kindergarten from a very early age due to the parents’ responsibility for their job. However, this will cause quite a bit of anxiety for the child.
• Each child has their own needs. And in a family with several children, this can arouse envy and the need to have “more affection” than others.
• Some children have to spend time after birth in an incubator, and this can induce a stress response as a result of being separated from the mother.

Many different situations can lead to an “attachment disorder” in a child. We should not blame ourselves. As we have mentioned, some children have more needs than others, and this is something that all parents should be aware of.

Give the children love and their fears will starve

We can fight attachment disorders with true love and a strong, healthy bond based on respect and security that can be strengthened in the following ways:

• Maintain physical contact with the newborn: breastfeeding is really positive, along with caresses, hugs, loving words…
• Nurture the baby’s crying.
• As they grow, do not hesitate to let them know that you care. Talk to them, answer their hundreds of questions, let go of their fears, give wings to their dreams, give them security and the tools they need to strengthen their self-confidence.

The bond between parents and children is an invisible thread nurtured by giving children love. It is the umbilical cord that will always hold them together. A strong, loving bond creates strong, loving children and gives them the courage they need to pursue their dreams.