Accept Your Current Situation Even If You Did Not Select It

Your current situation will never be perfect. It is full of negative circumstances, things you want to escape from. But there is nothing else you can do but face it.

Does resistance to adversity work for you? Does it help to deny it or blame it on bad luck?

Often we do not accept what happens to us when we do not like it. That is why we take the role of victim. However, we do not understand that we can look at our current situation from a different perspective.

To accept your current situation

You know that you have not chosen all the moments that made you doubt, feel like a failure, or those that got in your way.

But even if it is difficult, you must learn to accept them as if you chose them voluntarily.

It is not impossible, but it is indispensable to be aware that feeling sorry for yourself is not a solution.

To a certain extent, you know that there is nothing to do but face what is happening. It is better to accept it than to reject it.

Want to know how to do it?

• Negative things are life lessons: Find an understanding of what it is, and you will be able to see it in a positive light! The most difficult situations will make you stronger and help you grow and become more mature.
• Do not give up: Giving up has nothing to do with accepting the situation. Hold on to the present, even if it’s burning, and take it where you want to go.

• Do not sit and wait: Do not sit and wait until the storm passes. You need to grab the reins and start going and making a positive change even today.
• Do not let your mind get out of control: Your mind will fill you with negative ideas that will prevent you from finding the strength to get out of this. Do not listen to these thoughts.

Perhaps one of your biggest obstacles is that you believe in the thoughts that tell you that you will never get over this, that you are a disaster, or that you deserve all the bad things that happen to you.

These ideas are so attractive that if you seize them, you will fall into the victim complex and self-pity. These two situations are dead ends.

Things happen, but it all ends

When things are going well for you, you do not focus so much on what happens to you when things get negative. It is in these moments that you think the world is ending.

Have you ever stopped thinking about the happy times in your relationship ? Certainly not as often as the moment when the relationship fell apart and shattered into many pieces.

You think the world is closing in on you. Your negative emotions are powerful, and you feed them by not accepting them, while telling yourself that you do not deserve any of what is happening to you.

But even if everything seems so dramatic right now, it will pass.

You stopped living in the present and concentrating too much on your past and future. It is carried on a path full of expectations, dreams and lack of presence here and now.

You did not choose what happens to you, but if you accept your current situation as if you did, you will be much better equipped to deal with it.

There will always be something positive coming out of all the bad things that can happen to you. All you have to do is look at your situation from a different point of view.

Do not forget this

Keep moving forward no matter what, take control of your life, and do not let your negative thoughts hold you back.

Things always end because nothing lasts forever. So look at what is happening in an optimistic light and take hold of the good it offers.

You may not believe it, but you come out of it stronger, full of new experiences, and with a new perspective from which you can see the good side of things.

Because bad things always have a positive side. If you allow yourself that, you will learn more than you ever expected.